27 Gifts For Every Member In Your Squad

Eliza Huber
·5 min read

We might still be a month away from the start of the season of giving, but, if you ask us, it's never too early to get in the holiday spirit. Turn on that classic Mariah Carey album, begin Pinterest-boarding potential decor options, and start checking off that exhaustive list of holiday presents you somehow found yourself agreeing to give. Your mom wants this, your sister wants that, and by the time the holidays actually roll around, you and your bank account are almost too drained to enjoy them at all. But while family members might be tricky to shop for, shopping for your best friends is anything but.

After all, if there's anyone who knows what your friends really want this holiday season, it's you — a.k.a. the one who listens to them rant over glasses of Sauvignon Blanc (or maybe an alcohol-free alternative) and helps them organize their impulse purchases into keeps and throw-aways. So unlike your quest to buy each and every one of your aunts, uncles, and cousins a present they might actually enjoy, getting your closest friends everything they want and more this season will be a piece of cake.

To help you get started on the fun part of holiday shopping, we've rounded up 27 BFF-worthy presents to gift the Paris to your Nicole, Marissa to your Summer, and everyone in between.

At Refinery29, we’re here to help you navigate this overwhelming world of stuff. All of our market picks are independently selected and curated by the editorial team. If you buy something we link to on our site, Refinery29 may earn commission.

Because they really liked <em><a href="https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2020/10/10096435/emily-in-paris-fashion-trends-bucket-hats-berets" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Emily In Paris" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Emily In Paris</a></em> — like really, <em>really</em> liked it. <br><br><strong>& Other Stories</strong> Wool Beret, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.stories.com%2Fen_usd%2Faccessories%2Fheadwear%2Fhats%2Fproduct.wool-beret-black.0427681011.html" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:& Other Stories" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">& Other Stories</a>
Because they really liked Emily In Paris — like really, really liked it.

& Other Stories Wool Beret, $, available at & Other Stories
An upgrade from their overflowing collection of canvas tote bags. <br><br><strong>Noah</strong> Contrast Stitch Tote, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fnoahny.com%2Fcollections%2Fbags%2Fproducts%2Fcontrast-stitch-tote%3Fcolor%3DHunter%2520Green" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Noah" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Noah</a>
An upgrade from their overflowing collection of canvas tote bags.

Noah Contrast Stitch Tote, $, available at Noah
<strong>— PAID —</strong><br><br>These days, it's perfectly acceptable to stay in PJs all day. Give the serial lounger in your crew a major upgrade with this luxe sleepwear set.<br><br><strong>Banana Republic Factory</strong> Pajama Top, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fbananarepublicfactory.gapfactory.com%2Fbrowse%2Fproduct.do%3Fpid%3D662517031%23pdp-page-content" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Banana Republic Factory" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Banana Republic Factory</a><br><br><strong>Banana Republic Factory</strong> Pajama Bottom, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fbananarepublicfactory.gapfactory.com%2Fbrowse%2Fproduct.do%3Fpid%3D654022041%23pdp-page-content" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Banana Republic Factory" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Banana Republic Factory</a>
— PAID —

These days, it's perfectly acceptable to stay in PJs all day. Give the serial lounger in your crew a major upgrade with this luxe sleepwear set.

Banana Republic Factory Pajama Top, $, available at Banana Republic Factory

Banana Republic Factory Pajama Bottom, $, available at Banana Republic Factory
Friends don't let friends crack another phone screen. <br><br><strong>Lisa Says Gah x KJP</strong> iPhone Case - Green Warp Check, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Flisasaysgah.com%2Fcollections%2Fgifts%2Fproducts%2Fiphone-case-green-warp-check%3Fvariant%3D32540711321662" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Lisa Says Gah" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Lisa Says Gah</a>
Friends don't let friends crack another phone screen.

Lisa Says Gah x KJP iPhone Case - Green Warp Check, $, available at Lisa Says Gah
"We got no troubles, life is the bubbles!"— Sebastian sends the good vibes.<br><br><strong>Uniqlo</strong> Disney Princess Songs, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.uniqlo.com%2Fus%2Fen%2Fwomen-disney-princess-songs-ut-short-sleeve-graphic-t-shirt-434414.html%3F" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Uniqlo" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Uniqlo</a>
"We got no troubles, life is the bubbles!"— Sebastian sends the good vibes.

Uniqlo Disney Princess Songs, $, available at Uniqlo
The more the merrier with these oh-so-cute banana clips.<br><br><strong>Valet Studio</strong> Flec Clip, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.freepeople.com%2Fshop%2Fflec-clip%2F%3Fcategory%3DSEARCHRESULTS%26color%3D070%26searchparams%3Dq%253Dvalet%252520studio%26type%3DREGULAR%26size%3DOne%2520Size%26quantity%3D1" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Free People" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Free People</a>
The more the merrier with these oh-so-cute banana clips.

Valet Studio Flec Clip, $, available at Free People
We can already hear the "best gift-giver award" praise in your very near future.<br><br><strong>Roxanne Assoulin</strong> Alphabet Soup Enamel Bracelet, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.net-a-porter.com%2Fen-us%2Fshop%2Fproduct%2Froxanne-assoulin%2Falphabet-soup-enamel-bracelet%2F1244966" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Net-A-Porter" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Net-A-Porter</a>
We can already hear the "best gift-giver award" praise in your very near future.

Roxanne Assoulin Alphabet Soup Enamel Bracelet, $, available at Net-A-Porter
For <em>that</em> friend who won't stop begging to read your chart and DMs you <a href="https://www.instagram.com/notallgeminis/" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:@notallgeminis" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">@notallgeminis</a> memes at least six times a day.<br><br><strong>Birthdate Candle</strong> November Sixteenth Candle, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fbirthdate.co%2Fproducts%2Fnovember-sixteenths" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Birthdate Candle" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Birthdate Candle</a>
For that friend who won't stop begging to read your chart and DMs you @notallgeminis memes at least six times a day.

Birthdate Candle November Sixteenth Candle, $, available at Birthdate Candle
Nothing says BFF like a you-get-one-half, I-get-the-other pendant necklace.<br><br><strong>Stone and Strand</strong> Gold Plated Inseparable BFF Set, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.stoneandstrand.com%2Fproducts%2Fgold-plated-inseparable-bff-set" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Stone and Strand" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Stone and Strand</a>
Nothing says BFF like a you-get-one-half, I-get-the-other pendant necklace.

Stone and Strand Gold Plated Inseparable BFF Set, $, available at Stone and Strand
Because everyone needs a reminder sometimes.<br><br><strong>Wildfang</strong> You F*cking Got This Notebook, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.wildfang.com%2Fproducts%2Fyou-f-cking-got-this-notebook" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Wildfang" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Wildfang</a>
Because everyone needs a reminder sometimes.

Wildfang You F*cking Got This Notebook, $, available at Wildfang
Since you might not get to spend the holidays together this year. <br><br><strong>Urban Outfitters</strong> BFF Heart Christmas Ornament, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.urbanoutfitters.com%2Fshop%2Fbff-heart-christmas-ornament%3Frecommendation%3Ddyrectray-SimilarProduct%26color%3D066%26type%3DREGULAR%26size%3DONE%2520SIZE%26quantity%3D1" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Urban Outfitters" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Urban Outfitters</a>
Since you might not get to spend the holidays together this year.

Urban Outfitters BFF Heart Christmas Ornament, $, available at Urban Outfitters
When the whole squad is splitting the bill.<br><br><strong>Prada</strong> Re-Edition 2000 Nylon Mini Bag, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.prada.com%2Fus%2Fen%2Fwomen%2Fbags%2Fmini_bags%2Fproducts.re-edition_2000_nylon_mini_bag.1NE515_2DH0_F0002.html" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Prada" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Prada</a>
When the whole squad is splitting the bill.

Prada Re-Edition 2000 Nylon Mini Bag, $, available at Prada
Ensure your friend group's taking full advantage of peak cozy season with this polo-style sweater that's also <a href="https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/2020/10/10103365/katie-holmes-fall-sweater" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Katie Holmes-approved" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Katie Holmes-approved</a>. <br><br><strong>Violeta By Mango</strong> Polo Style Sweater, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fshop.mango.com%2Fus%2Fplus-size%2Fsweaters-and-cardigans-sweaters%2Fpolo-style-sweater_77045963.html" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Mango" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Mango</a>
Ensure your friend group's taking full advantage of peak cozy season with this polo-style sweater that's also Katie Holmes-approved.

Violeta By Mango Polo Style Sweater, $, available at Mango
There's no better gift than the one they've been eyeing for weeks.<br><br><strong>Zara</strong> Low Heeled Leather Tall Boots, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Ffave.co%2F3nhmR9v" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Zara" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Zara</a>
There's no better gift than the one they've been eyeing for weeks.

Zara Low Heeled Leather Tall Boots, $, available at Zara
One for every friend in your group.<br><br><strong>Urban Outfitters</strong> Female Form Vase, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.urbanoutfitters.com%2Fshop%2Ffemale-form-vase" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Urban Outfitters" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Urban Outfitters</a><span class="copyright">Photo Courtesy of Urban Outfitters.</span>
One for every friend in your group.

Urban Outfitters Female Form Vase, $, available at Urban OutfittersPhoto Courtesy of Urban Outfitters.
Fot the one who enjoys a nice, crisp white. <br><br><strong>Twomey</strong> Twomey Cellars by Silver Oak Sauvignon Blanc 2019, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.wine.com%2Fproduct%2Ftwomey-cellars-by-silver-oak-sauvignon-blanc-2019%2F621195" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Wine.com" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Wine.com</a>
Fot the one who enjoys a nice, crisp white.

Twomey Twomey Cellars by Silver Oak Sauvignon Blanc 2019, $, available at Wine.com
For the post-wine puffy under-eyes. <br><br><strong>Kitsch</strong> Facial Ice Roller, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.shopbop.com%2Ffacial-ice-roller-kitsch%2Fvp%2Fv%3D1%2F1507822245.htm%3FfolderID%3D42470%26fm%3Dother-shopbysize-viewall%26os%3Dfalse%26colorId%3D11DE9%26ref_%3DSB_PLP_NB_16" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Shopbop" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Shopbop</a>
For the post-wine puffy under-eyes.

Kitsch Facial Ice Roller, $, available at Shopbop
Safety first! <br><br><strong>For The Ages NY</strong> For the Ages, Moire Mask and Scrunchie Set, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Ffortheagesny.com%2Fcollections%2Fshop%2Fproducts%2Ffor-the-ages-moire-mask-and-scrunchie-set" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:For The Ages NY" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">For The Ages NY</a>
Safety first!

For The Ages NY For the Ages, Moire Mask and Scrunchie Set, $, available at For The Ages NY
Give your BFF the gift of skin that's hydrated AF.<br><br><strong>Vital Tonics</strong> The Mask, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.shopvitaltonics.com%2Fproduct%2Fthe-mask%2F8" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Vital Tonics" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Vital Tonics</a>
Give your BFF the gift of skin that's hydrated AF.

Vital Tonics The Mask, $, available at Vital Tonics
You know <a href="https://www.refinery29.com/en-us/cozy-homebody-gifts" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:that one friend who consistently chooses their bed over going out" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">that one friend who consistently chooses their bed over going out</a>? Give them these luxe PJs to make dragging them along require no effort at all.<br><br><strong>Sleeper</strong> Party Pajama Set With Feathers, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fthe-sleeper.com%2Fen%2Fproduct%2Fparty-pajama-set-with-feathers-in-red%2F" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Sleeper" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Sleeper</a>
You know that one friend who consistently chooses their bed over going out? Give them these luxe PJs to make dragging them along require no effort at all.

Sleeper Party Pajama Set With Feathers, $, available at Sleeper
Every friend group has one...<br><br><strong>Shine</strong> 24K Gold Rolling Papers, 2 Sheet Pack, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.bespokepost.com%2Fstore%2Fshine-24k-gold-rolling-papers-2-sheet-pack" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Bespoke Post" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Bespoke Post</a>
Every friend group has one...

Shine 24K Gold Rolling Papers, 2 Sheet Pack, $, available at Bespoke Post
To each their own.<br><br><strong>Yvonne Ellen</strong> Pastel Champagne Tea Cup and Saucer, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fyvonneellen.com%2Fcollections%2Ftea-cups%2Fproducts%2Fchampagne-teacup" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Yvonne Ellen" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Yvonne Ellen</a>
To each their own.

Yvonne Ellen Pastel Champagne Tea Cup and Saucer, $, available at Yvonne Ellen
Which one are they: a Bobbi or a Frances? <br><br><strong>Hogarth</strong> Conversations with Friends: A Novel by Sally Rooney, $, available at <a href="https://www.amazon.com/Conversations-Friends-Novel-Sally-Rooney/dp/0451499069/ref=pd_sbs_14_2/132-7150530-6651729" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Amazon" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Amazon</a>
Which one are they: a Bobbi or a Frances?

Hogarth Conversations with Friends: A Novel by Sally Rooney, $, available at Amazon
Because they're hosting the group's next martinis and fries night. <br><br><strong>Crate and Barrel</strong> Viv Martini Glass, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.crateandbarrel.com%2Fviv-martini-glass%2Fs240745" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Crate and Barrel" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Crate and Barrel</a>
Because they're hosting the group's next martinis and fries night.

Crate and Barrel Viv Martini Glass, $, available at Crate and Barrel
For the friend who's perpetually freezing and won't let you turn your radiator off even when it's boiling hot.<br><br><strong>COS</strong> Ribbed Cashmere Slippers, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.cosstores.com%2Fen_usd%2Fwomen%2Faccessories%2Fproduct.ribbed-cashmere-slippers-pink.0760298007.html" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:COS" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">COS</a>
For the friend who's perpetually freezing and won't let you turn your radiator off even when it's boiling hot.

COS Ribbed Cashmere Slippers, $, available at COS
Take your pick.<br><br><strong>Boy Smells</strong> Hypernature 3-Pack Votive Candle Set, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.nordstrom.com%2Fs%2Fboy-smells-hypernature-3-pack-votive-candle-set%2F5746872%3Forigin%3Dcoordinating-5746872-0-3-PDP_1_OOS-recbot-also_viewed_graph%26recs_placement%3DPDP_1_OOS%26recs_strategy%3Dalso_viewed_graph%26recs_source%3Drecbot%26recs_page_type%3Dproduct%26recs_seed%3D4798000%26color%3DMULTI" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Nordstrom" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Nordstrom</a>
Take your pick.

Boy Smells Hypernature 3-Pack Votive Candle Set, $, available at Nordstrom
Be the Will to their Grace with these monogram coffee mugs. <br><br><strong>Anthropologie</strong> Monogram Mug, $, available at <a href="https://go.skimresources.com/?id=30283X879131&url=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.anthropologie.com%2Fshop%2Fmonogram-mug%3Fcolor%3D000%26type%3DSTANDARD%26quantity%3D1" rel="nofollow noopener" target="_blank" data-ylk="slk:Anthropologie" class="link rapid-noclick-resp">Anthropologie</a>
Be the Will to their Grace with these monogram coffee mugs.

Anthropologie Monogram Mug, $, available at Anthropologie

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