"That connection … it's everything."
The practice of social distancing is crucial to controlling the spread of the coronavirus. But for people in recovery, like Todd Hewitt, the social isolation required during COVID-19 can put their sobriety in jeopardy.
"You're always taught, go out. Make connections," Hewitt said. "That's the biggest thing that I discovered in going through recovery … Isolation is bad. So right now with this, it's incredibly tough on a lot of the guys."
Hewitt finished a four-month stay at the Sunshine Coast Health Centre (SCHC) in Powell River, B.C. at the end of January. He returned to the Calgary area when he finished so he could be close to his two sons.
Hewitt says having his family to focus is actually a helpful distraction.
"The kids aren't in school," Hewitt said. "What I have to worry about is making breakfast in the morning, making lunch, making dinner, having groceries, making sure there's toilet paper. So, it's actually made it a lot easier. I don't have the opportunity to go to the liquor store or the bar."
He knows that's not the case for everyone in recovery. Some people are trying to stay sober without a network of family or friends. But he encourages anyone feeling isolated to reach out, whether to a friend or even a support line.
"It's the hardest thing to do," he said. "When you're in addiction you never want to be a burden on anybody."
While Hewitt believes in-person meetings are far more successful, he knows that supporting recovery during the coronavirus pandemic will have to be done in creative ways.
SCHC offers group meetings for its alumni in Calgary and Edmonton to continue supporting them in recovery. The Calgary group is continuing to work out their alternative plans for alumni during the coronavirus pandemic.
The SCHC Edmonton group meetings have already been moved online.
Dave Sinclair is a sober coach who facilitates the support meetings in Edmonton on behalf of the centre.
"Especially given this time right now where we are ... there's a lot of people that are really kind of uncertain," Sinclair said. "If you're already on a little bit of shaky ground then it's a really scary time right now."
Sinclair says self-care or "[eating] your spinach" as he calls it is something that is important for everyone to practice, but especially those that might struggle with addictions.
"It's really important for the men in this group, this recovery group, to come together as a community," he said.
The recovery group ranges in size from eight to 16 people at their weekly meetings. Their first online session was held last Tuesday.
"It worked pretty well," Sinclair said. "We were still able to connect. So, even in this world right now where we're talking about socially isolating, that's not the word."
"We're personally distancing right now so that we can do our part."
Alberta Health Services is doing what they can to continue with their mental health and addictions support programs as well, according to spokesperson Sabrina Atwal.
"Where possible support and treatment will be provided by phone," Atwal said via email. "We encourage all clients to contact the clinic prior to their appointment to discuss whether services can be provided this way. Staff will be pre-screening clients prior to client visits."