Now, here's some advice you might not hear in couples counselling. At least, not in the next few years.
But sex robots — that is, robots designed specifically for sexual gratification, which may soon be a reality — could improve marriages by making them more about love and less about sex, says a professor at the University of British Columbia.
"I predict their availability will give couples greater opportunity to define their own types of marriages. One example might be that more couples could choose 'companionship marriages' that do not involve sex, but focus solely on the creation of a family," economics professor Marina Adshade said in a press release.
"I don't see sex robots as substitutes for human companionship but rather as complements to human companionship. Just because we might enjoy the company of robots doesn't mean that we cannot also enjoy the company of humans, or that having robots won't enhance our relationships with humans."
If you are @UBC next Thursday and have a burning desire to learn more about #Sexrobots (who doesn't!) I will be speaking @UBCBookstore at 4:00 with philosopher @MoralLust, editor of Robot Sex: Social and Ethical Implications. pic.twitter.com/1kGACmxuiL
— Marina Adshade (@MarinaAdshade) April 10, 2018
Adshade is the author of a chapter in Robot Sex: Social and Ethical Implications, a new book that draws on perspectives from philosophy, psychology, religious studies, economics, and law on the "possible future of robot-human sexual relationships."
She'll be reading from her chapter at the UBC bookstore today.
It will likely still be a fair bit of time before sex robots become a common household product, Adshade told Global News.
"People keep saying this is five years away, this is six years away. I don't think it's actually that close, because robot technology is taking an incredibly long time to develop," she said.
"For example, the Real Dolls that everybody sees that are called robots, there's nothing about them that makes them a robot ... they don't even have heaters in them, so they're not even body temperature. That's how far away we are."
Modern marriage puts a lot of pressure on one person to fulfill all of their partner's desires, Adshade said in a news release.
"We have become increasingly demanding in what we want from the people that we marry. There was a time when women were happy to have a husband that supported the family and men were happy to have a caring mother to his children," she said.
"Today we still want those things, but we also want so much more — we want lasting sexual compatibility, intense romance, and someone who is an amazing co-parent. That is a lot to ask of one person."
Sex robots could help people move away from thinking that they need to get everything from one person, Adshade added.
"(They would) allow us to focus on other qualities in a marriage partner, free of the requirement of sexual compatibility."
Technology has long been part of the bedroom
While the idea of sex robots might seem a little out there to some people, remember that technology has been part of the bedroom for, well, centuries (the first known dildo "made of siltstone and polished to a high gloss" dates to the paleolithic era, according to Alternet).
And the first steam-powered vibrator was created by Dr. George Taylor in 1869. Sure, it was to treat women's "hysteria," but ... we'll take it. Cordless vibrators have been around since the 1960s, and couples have been able to enjoy having sex remotely thanks toteledildonics (technology that combines sex toys and software) since 2004, according to Marie Claire.
Last year, a report from the Foundation for Responsible Robotics found that rapidly evolving technology has already led to the production of "android love dolls" that can perform 50 different sexual positions, Global News reported.
So, we might not be too far off from sex robots improving our marriages, after all.
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