Video games: stress buster or massive time sucker? Experts offer control tips

A man plays the computer game "Candy Crush Saga" on his iPad in Oakville, Ont., Saturday, Nov. 30, 2013. THE CANADIAN PRESS/Richard Buchan

TORONTO - It starts innocently, as a time filler on a bus or a stress buster after a hard day at the office.

But as the shiny gems of Bejeweled Blitz or Candy Crush's brightly-coloured bonbons burst in a satisfying cascade of explosions, you may find your playing takes a more compulsive tone.

A few minutes may turn into an hour and you still haven't loaded the dishwasher, picked up the book you are reading or engaged in a conversation with your partner or kids.

The fact is, some of these games can really hook users, experts say. And while there may be net gain to playing for many people, you may want to keep an eye on how much time you are devoting to them and what it is costing you, both in terms of what you aren't doing as a consequence and sometimes even what you pay to play.

"It's not a problem unless it's causing problems," says Dr. Bruce Ballon, a psychiatrist who developed the gambling, gaming and Internet use clinic at Toronto's Centre for Addiction and Mental Health.

"But some people forget it is actually causing problems, such as 'Oh, I'm not hanging out with my family as much anymore,' 'My kids are getting angry about it' or 'I'm playing these games in the middle of dinner.'"

Ballon created his clinic because he recognized the similarities between Internet and video games and gambling. "There are huge parallels," he says, suggesting the visual and audio cues as well as hidden costs built into some games are very much like online gambling.

"It's inherently re-inforcing," Susan Whitbourne, a psychologist who studies casual video game playing, says of this type of entertainment.

"They know what they're doing when they make these things. They're designed to be engaging and exciting and pretty."

Both Whitbourne and Ballon insist these games have good qualities, both as stress relievers (Ballon) and potentially as cognitive training tools for older adults (Whitbourne).

For instance, Whitbourne says the need to constantly scan an evolving field of play and respond rapidly to those changes mirrors the skills drivers need. Practising them by playing these types of games may slow the decline of driving skills in older adults, she and others hope.

But a comment from a respondent in a study she just published on Bejeweled Blitz players underscores the problem some people have with these games.

"I had a friend (who also plays Bejeweled Blitz) once tell me that she was so addicted to it, she saw two red cars when she was out once and was looking for the third red car to complete the match," a respondent is quoted as saying in the study, published in the journal Cyberpsychology, Behavior and Social Networking.

Whitbourne, who teaches at the University of Massachusetts Amherst, wasn't looking into the addictive aspects of the game when she started the study, though her own personal experience perhaps might have led her there.

She was introduced to the game by a student, and remembers thinking: "Wow, this is really making me respond a lot more quickly than I feel comfortable doing. I wonder what that's about?"

When Whitbourne started looking into it and similar games, she found there was very little research on them. When she wrote about their potential for sharpening cognitive health on her blog at "Psychology Today," PopCap, the company that makes Bejeweled Blitz, asked if she'd like help studying it.

They posted a link to a survey she devised on their Facebook page. "I got 10,000 people overnight. It crashed the server."

She wasn't aiming to see if people found it addictive. But in a section where people could make additional comments about the game, a surprising number raised the issue. In fact, 14.7 per cent of 10,308 respondents offered that they found the game had addictive qualities.

And fully one third of respondents reported playing so frequently that they fell into what Whitbourne defined as a "heavy" user category, playing several sessions a day for between 31 and 60 minutes a time.

Whitbourne and Ballon have some suggestions for people who want to cut back on their game playing, though he cautions that there isn't a simple fix.

"It's not so easy," he says, likening it to going on a diet or starting an exercise regime.

"But it's like, day to day, you get into a habit of healthy care of yourself.... It's healthy care of your technology."

The first thing is to get a good handle on how much time you are spending on the game, when you play it and what you are sacrificing by devoting time to it rather than to relationships or other endeavours.

Ballon suggests you try to figure out why you are playing. "Why am I doing this? You have to develop the self-reflective skills to try to combat that."

Set limits on playing time and be strict about them, says Whitbourne. Don't fall into the "one more game" trap. She suggests finding a way to reward yourself for stopping once you've reached the time limit you set for a session.

Whitbourne also suggests people play free versions of the games, or ones that can be played after a one-time purchase cost. "Don't be paying for boosters, because you will get sucked into a hopeless morass."

Another approach is to simply not turn on the device on which you play the game, Ballon says. If your problem is making yourself stop when you decide to play a little before heading to bed, don't even start.

In fact, that approach may be advisable for people who have trouble controlling their game playing when the new game comes down the virtual pipeline, Whitbourne says.

If you are finding Bejeweled Blitz addictive, "don't start on Candy Crush," she says.

"It's worse."