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Watching 'By the Sea' After the Jolie-Pitt Split: Scenes From an Imperfect Marriage

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Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt in ‘By the Sea’ (Photo: Universal)

Now that their separation is official, Angelina Jolie and Brad Pitt’s relationship seems neatly bookended by the two films they made together, ten years apart. The first, 2005’s Mr. and Mrs. Smith, was a sexy spy romp that proved wildly popular, not least of all because fans wanted to determine for themselves whether Pitt’s chemistry with Jolie was the catalyst for his split from Jennifer Aniston. A decade later, after expanding their family to include six children and formally tying the knot, Pitt and Jolie reunited on screen in 2015’s By the Sea, a quiet drama about a couple in crisis. Written and directed by Jolie shortly after the wedding, the film met with mostly poor reviews and generated little interest at the box office. Of course, it seems a lot more interesting in retrospect, knowing that the director’s marriage was not as solid as she claimed, constantly, in interviews promoting the film. (“At the end [of shooting] we came out of it thinking, ‘This was the best honeymoon,’” she told The Telegraph.) The idea that Jolie, a master of public-image manipulation, might have hidden clues to her own crumbling marriage in By the Sea is patently ridiculous. And yet, there’s no denying this fact: Of all the movies she could have made on her honeymoon, she chose to make one about two artists, played by herself and her actual partner, confronting a deep malignancy in their marriage. Future Brangelina scholars will no doubt dedicate entire tomes to Jolie’s decision — so, to kick off the conversation, let’s take a look at how By the Sea plays in light of the Jolie-Pitts’ divorce news.

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By the Sea is a flawed, though exquisitely shot, character study of an American couple — Vanessa, a former ballet dancer battling depression, and Roland, a famous novelist with writer’s block — who try to escape their enmeshed midlife crisis with a seaside vacation to France. (The film is set in the 1970s, but beyond explaining Jolie’s awful wigs and the absence of cell phones, this is irrelevant.) For at least the first half hour, By the Sea feels like a strange theatrical exercise in which two people who have never seen actual humans attempt to act like them. Jolie enters the picture wearing a comically large hat and speaks her first line — “I smell fish” — into the middle distance, like a drag queen paying homage to a Joan Crawford film. At the hotel, Vanessa drapes herself over furniture in a gauzy black nightgown, striking stiff poses meant to convey despair; Roland, supposedly a wordsmith, says lines that sound like poorly translated subtitles (“You resist happiness,” he tells Vanessa).

The film gets considerably more compelling as Vanessa and Roland become obsessed with their hotel neighbors, French newlyweds Lea (Melanie Laurent) and Francois (Melvil Poupaud). Through a peephole they discover in their own room, the Americans secretly spy on the younger couple. As their voyeurism becomes more insatiable, Vanessa and Roland make overtures of friendship, careful to keep their motives hidden — for example, getting Lea and Francois drunk at the local pub, then hurrying back to their peephole to spy on the aftermath.

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Here’s where it becomes difficult not to speculate about the stars’ actual marriage. For the past 12 years, Brad and Angelina have been the people on the other side of the peephole: the beautiful couple that the rest of us spy on, obsess over, and envy. But now, that glowing image they’ve projected over the past decade — two effortlessly perfect people, made for one another — turns out in the end to be a mirage.

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This is where the movie’s peephole dwellers, Francois and Lea, differ from the real-life Brad and Angelina. Much to the distress of Vanessa and Roland, the French couple next door is exactly the same in private as they are in public. Through the peephole, it becomes clear that they are truly in love, that their life together is all sex and laughter. And the longer that Pitt and Jolie’s characters watch, the more envious they become, and the more their own marriage feels like a lie.

And not just their marriage. Roland worries that he’s a fraud in his own life: surrounded by stock short-story characters at the local pub, he moans, “Any writer worth his salt would get a story here. It’s just me.” The impeccably dressed Vanessa walks into the sea fully clothed one day, and returns to their hotel room dripping with water and eyeliner, shivering like a half-drowned animal. “Now my outsides match my insides,” she tells Roland. Both characters have outgrown the roles they’re accustomed to playing but have no idea how to move on. “Are we OK?” Vanessa asks Roland of their marriage. “We’re the same as we’ve been for a long time,” he replies, clearly not knowing the answer.

Eventually, the audience learns what thrust the couple into crisis: a medical condition that serves as another metaphor for their insides not matching their outsides. (Once again, it’s hard not to compare this to Jolie’s real-life cancer battle, which occurred while the film was in development.) When Roland and Vanessa’s jealous games nearly destroy Francois and Lea’s marriage, they’re forced to turn their attention to the actual problem, and begin grieving and healing. “We’ve gotta stop being such assholes,” Roland suggests. He finally writes his book, and he and Vanessa drive away from the sea, into their imperfect future.

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Jolie didn’t write a book, but she did make a movie: A movie about two people breaking free from a life that seems beautiful, but is actually rotting from the inside out. It’s fair to say that most critics had trouble taking that film seriously. Though By the Sea received excellent reviews from a few major media outlets (including The New Yorker, Time, The New York Times, and the Los Angeles Times), it was also greeted with plenty of eye-rolling, called “a vanity project that’s difficult to love” (The Guardian), “devoid of real emotion” (the Washington Post), and “a borderline unendurable exercise in vapid self-indulgence” (RogerEbert.com).

I wonder how much of that reaction was critics’ recoiling from what might have seemed like gloating from Jolie, that most effortlessly flawless of stars. Though the director was candid about the film being informed by her own illness, she was insistent that Roland and Vanessa’s relationship in no way reflected her marriage with Pitt. “Brad and I have our issues, but if the characters were even remotely close to our problems we couldn’t have made the film,” she told People. In fact, Jolie said, her real-life marriage was so solid that playing those characters brought them closer together. “It strengthens a relationship if you can pass those big fights and those big things where you really come head-to-head,” she claimed. In other words: Jolie was inviting audiences to gawk at the couple’s pain, as long as they were willing to keep in mind that it was just pretend.

Or was it? Looking back, the film plays like a muffled scream coming from underneath a silk pillow. Roland and Vanessa are beautiful people, beautifully composed against a beautiful backdrop, but everything in their lives is wrong. How much of this disconnect reflects what Jolie was feeling on her real-life honeymoon? Did she and Pitt find time for actual intimacy, or was their characters’ onscreen passion — the sometimes-violent fights, the (actually pretty hot) bathtub sex scene — the closest they came? Did the line between their private selves and their public selves become so blurred that playing characters in a film was the only thing that felt real?

This is all, obviously, speculation — but the Jolie-Pitts have always invited speculation, with their coy interviews and careful photo ops. Remember, this is a relationship that began in the public eye, with a movie that turned into a real-life Hollywood romance. In fact, their relationship was confirmed to the world for the first time through a photograph on the cover of Star magazine: Brad, Angelina, and her son Maddox, just an ordinary family, playing happily by the sea.

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