Police called as Pride flag debate erupts at York Region school board meeting
Chaos erupted at a York Region school board meeting in Aurora, Ont., on Tuesday over a debate about raising the rainbow flag for Pride month in June.
Chaos erupted at a York Region school board meeting in Aurora, Ont., on Tuesday over a debate about raising the rainbow flag for Pride month in June.
Police were called at a York Catholic District School Board (YCDSB) meeting at the Catholic Education Centre after the discussion about the Pride flag became heated, with security pushing people out and attendees arguing against the flag spilling into the hallway.
TCDSB teacher Paolo De Buono was set to speak in favour of raising the flag at the meeting. However, he claims he received an email from the board that his delegation will not be heard.
In a video uploaded on Twitter by De Buono, he was swarmed by parents as they can be heard calling him a "devil incarnate," "radical teacher," and even a "pedophile."
I was surrounded in the lobby by York Catholic parents against flying the Pride flag, & I told them:
“I am not afraid.”
(And then a York Region superintendent escorted me back into the board room.) pic.twitter.com/XAguY5UkMd— Paolo De Buono, 🌈 #BLM, MSc, JD, OCT (@misterdebuono) April 26, 2023
De Buono uploaded his delegation speaking notes on Twitter and wrote that he was ashamed to be a York Catholic parent because York Catholic is the only Catholic board in the GTA "not flying the Pride flag."
"I am deeply concerned that York Catholic's obstinance in not flying the Pride flag is a red flag about how its 2SLGBTQI+ students are being treated in York Catholic schools and that 2SLGBTQI+ students do not feel safe within York Catholic schools," he wrote.
"Flying the Pride flag at York Catholic schools has everything to do with learning. Students cannot learn when they do not feel safe at school," he added.
This was my 4-page delegation as submitted in time. It’s not offensive or hurtful. It’s on point.
And this has been my point. A board like York Catholic, using the Fully Alive textbook, effectively believes & teaches what Myles said at 2:27 & after in his delegation.
2/2 pic.twitter.com/ieJ6LXUaMb— Paolo De Buono, 🌈 #BLM, MSc, JD, OCT (@misterdebuono) April 26, 2023
According to City News Toronto reporter Michelle Mackey, many 2SLGBTQ+ students were left in "tears" during the meeting.
"Some 2SLGBTQ+ students who were still in the meeting were in tears," she wrote on Twitter. "A trustee made a speech about keeping kids safe and denouncing hate. When students in the room asked how exactly they were going to do that, there was no response and the meeting continued.
Some 2SLGBTQ+ students who were still in the meeting were in tears. A trustee then made a speech about keeping kids safe and denouncing hate. When students in the room asked how exactly they were going to do that, there was no response and the meeting continued.
— Michelle Mackey (@michellemackey) April 26, 2023
De Buono also tweeted that as the situation became worse with parents shouting, he could see many students sitting scared in the board room and crying.
“I saw students crying, in fear, in the boardroom, as they heard York Catholic community members shouting angrily from the lobby. How can such a simple but important form of recognition, a Pride flag, cause so many in York Region to become so angry?” De Buono wrote in a tweet.
I saw students crying, in fear, in the board room, as they heard York Catholic community members shouting angrily from the lobby.
How can such a simple but important form of recognition, a Pride flag, cause so many in York Region to become so angry?https://t.co/RpsKESUJAP— Paolo De Buono, 🌈 #BLM, MSc, JD, OCT (@misterdebuono) April 26, 2023
As a response to the event, PFLAG Canada, a national non-profit organization, officially designated York Catholic School Board as "Unsafe for the LGBTQ2IA+ Community of York Region."
YCDSB to receive designation as "Unsafe for the LGBTQ2IA+ Community of York Region" in the absence of meaningful action. - https://t.co/WRTw4XEO65
— Pflag York Region (@PflagYorkRegion) April 26, 2023
"Last night's meeting was deeply disturbing on a number of levels," wrote President of Pflag Canada York Region Tristan Coolman.
"This incident, along with the treatment of the students, parents and allies in attendance today has proven this Board lacks the decision quality and expertise to create a truly inclusive, equitable, and safe public space for these meetings," he added.
'York Region is our very own Florida': People react, many show support
The students being directly impacted are too young to have to deal with this level of hate from adults.
As a former York Region student I stand with the teachers, students and parents advocating for YCDSB to raise the Pride flag and recognize June as Pride Month. https://t.co/YEqSXEJAa3— Megan Stangl (@MegaStang) April 26, 2023
You need to watch this to understand that hatred of people like me is on the rise and that school boards have become Ground Zero for homophobia and transphobia.
Keep showing up for queer and trans kids.
They need us. https://t.co/68EaN2P2OK— ArielTroster (she/her) (@ArielTroster) April 26, 2023
@misterdebuono keep raising flags that support inclusivity, this behaviour is another reason why visual support is important now. Well done @GardaWorld for assisting the staff, your calm and awareness was important.
— ScarfyTV (@ScarfyTV) April 26, 2023
York Region is our very own Florida. https://t.co/ZTcZ95NfzZ
— Radheyan Simonpillai (@JustSayRad) April 26, 2023
This video is absolutely disgusting.
— Chris Jancelewicz (@CJancelewicz) April 26, 2023
These parents are freaking out about a simple Pride flag? It’s 2023. Wait until they find out what their own kids are upto on TikTok.
— KC (@kci2013) April 26, 2023
Defund the Ontario catholic board. This hate and behaviour doesn’t deserve any public money. Shame on them.
— Yassified to Maintain Anonymity (@its_skellie) April 26, 2023
Admire @misterdebuono’s bravery. Truly heroic effort in standing up for marginalized and vulnerable students. Thank you!
— Norm Di Pasquale (@normsworld) April 26, 2023
De Buono thanked everyone for their strong support after the delegation.
"It is challenging for me personally, [because] what I saw triggered my memory of issues I raised in my May 2021 application to the Human Rights Tribunal of Ontario, which still has not processed it," he wrote.
Thanks to so many for your kind messages of support. I can't respond to all of them yet.
It is challenging for me personally, bc what I saw triggered my memory of issues I raised in my May 2021 application to the Human Rights Tribunal of ON, which still has not processed it.— Paolo De Buono, 🌈 #BLM, MSc, JD, OCT (@misterdebuono) April 26, 2023