Saskatoon schools send 'Media Smarts' letter to parents after shooting
Public schools in Saskatoon have sent a letter home to parents with tips on how to deal with graphic media coverage.
In the wake of yesterday's shooting in Ottawa, Saskatoon Public Schools sent out a briefing note prepared by Media Smarts, a Canadian centre for digital and media literacy.
Nicole Mills has two daughters in the public system, and received the letter. She says it can be difficult to explain complex issues to children.
"Terrorism is an evolving topic and it's always changing," she said. "You can't just say, 'This guy did this because of this.' There's no one, flat reason why someone commits an act of terrorism."
Child psychologist Heather Tomes says it's very important to discuss these issues with kids.
"I think it's important that parents initiate those conversations," she said. "And, as much as possible, do it in a way that is natural and that fits into the normal routine of family life. Whether it's driving to and from school, or over the supper table. Just to ask their children about any worries or concerns or questions that they have."
Tomes says there are warning signs to look for.
"Sometimes, children will express fear or concerns without words," she said. "It may come just as a restlessness or difficulty concentration, disturbed sleep... just take time with your children to talk and listen."
Here are some tips from Media Smarts for parents:
- Look for signs of anxiety — Parents shouldn't assume that even small children are unaware of events on the news. Talk to children about what they have seen and how they're feeling.
- Be selective in media consumption — Protect children from disturbing images. Try not to leave the TV or radio on in the background.
- Help children feel safe — Reassure children these events don't pose a direct threat to them. Avoid long, detailed explanations with young children.
- Emphasize tolerance and respect — Explain how negative stereotypes can lead to simplistic and dangerous perceptions. Point out that peaceful solutions are preferable to violence.
